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here and send an email. Steve, I am very very sorry. It is very sad news, but I too am glad she is at peace. She has borne her illness with an exceptional courage and straightforwardness and I know that a lot of her extraordinary attitude has come from your support and love. It is a privilege to be able to spend some time with you both and maybe help where we could. Please be assured that 'the boys' are here for you when and wherever you need us. We will keep in close touch. Please pass on my condolences to the family and let us know whatever we can do to assist. with best wishes Dave (and an overseas Martha) Steve, I am so sorry to hear the news. I have been expecting it after our last exchange but it still comes as a massive shock. Both Lindsey and I send our deepest sympathy to you Steve. The few times we met Sarah were always a pleasure and both Lindsey and I still remember fondly her fantastic speech at your wedding. I also think that she must have been very grateful to have someone like you to help through the months of pain. I will try to speak to you in the next few days / week. Matt and Lins To the family of Sarah Mitchell You do not know me, I am a friend of Liz Tilley in the United Kingdom. Liz has shared her news with me as I too have just lost a very dear friend from lung cancer this past week. I had a look at the website, and what a wonderful way of keeping her smiling and beautiful face there for everyone to remember her by. To be inspired by! She certainly sounds like she was a wonderful lady and from all photo’s one can see that she enjoyed life to the fullest. I would like to express my sincere condolences to all the family and friends of Sarah. Good memories never die, and I would hope that when you think about Sarah, you will do so with a smile on your face. For your memory should always be of something she did, or something she shared with another. You owe it to her to keep smiling, as much as she did. Warmest wishes Veronica Mancini Steve, thanks for your message. I’m so sorry to hear about Sarah. Her life was far too short but she does seem to have achieved far more in her 40 or so years than most people do in twice the lifetime. She was remarkable. I’ve always admired you two and how positive and constructive you have remained throughout Sarah’s illness. You did have a great 17 years together and to have had such a happy relationship is very special, and nothing will change that. I’m sorry I’ve missed your recent calls. I am going to be at my desk tomorrow morning so will give you a call then. Lots and lots of love. My thoughts are with you and with Sarah’s family. Hilary x Dear Steve, John just called me to tell me your terrible news and I just wanted to tell you how terribly sorry and sad I am. We both tremendously admired how you both fought her disease so valiantly and Sarah's courage was amazing to see in person when we stayed with you I'm not sure if you are aware but she enabled me to put into perspective my own problems and helped me to decide to move on and live life for the present because who knows what tomorrow will bring (for all of us...) Be sure that, although we are so far away, we are thinking of you and will try and help as best we can. With lots of love, Sarah xxx Dear Liz, Steve, and family, I am deeply saddened by the news of Sarah's departure, and wish to present you all with my sincere condolences. My friend Evelyn and I are privileged to have known Sarah, albeit too shortly, and our memories of her are all joyful ones indeed. Lately, as we learned of her misfortune, she also became an inspiration that will have a lasting influence. In these difficult times, our thoughts are with you who remain behind to continue the journey, as Sarah must have told you herself she wanted. Steve, the pictures you posted are a beautiful record of a generous life. With our sincerest sympathy, Evelyn Wong and Martin Storey Perth, May 2008 Steve, We are so deperately sorry that Sarah has lost her battle. Thankyou for letting us know so soon. Even this far away, and having fairly infrequent contact I feel totally shell shocked. I can only imagine how you and Sarah's family are feeling, even though you were preparing for the end to come. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. Sarah and I met at primary school. We were best friends. When we went on to comprehensive we chumed up with Joanne and Jayne and became a foursome to be reckoned with. We were in all the sports teams and did very well too. After A levels in 1984 we all pursued our chosen career paths. We never saw Joanne again unfortunately. Sarah and I have managed to keep in touch over the years, albeit at times with long breaks in between, but she was always one of my best friends. I shall cherish my memories of her, and always be grateful that we saw you both in Australia, last time in 2006. I'm pleased that my daughter Maddie was able to meet such a very special person. Steve, I hope that you are able to rebuild a life for yourself in time. Please also pass on our thoughts to Sarahs Mum and the rest of her family. Erica, Pete and Maddie. Oh Steve. I'm so sorry to hear this. It seems only yesterday I saw you both in the Peak District for my birthday last year, with Sarah full of life and fun. And I'm so sorry to hear she was in such pain towards the end. Sometimes life is so unfair. She was a lovely person - whenever I spent time with her, I thought that. And she loved life and lived it to the full - a real inspiration. Please let me know if you are coming over. My thoughts are with you. Beccy x Dear Steve, I was so sorry to hear from Beccy today of Sarah’s tragic death. I can’t imagine what you must be going through but I hope that having her family with you in Perth is a source of comfort and that you will be able to draw strength from Sarah’s amazing courage throughout the last few years when she has fought cancer in such a determined and brave way. It is so hard to find any adequate words at a time like this but I just wanted to say how sorry I am and that I am thinking of you. With best wishes, Liz Dear Steve, no doubt you will have had many messages of support throughout this saddest of times. Though we were all far away when this happened i have known you nearly all my life. She was brave and together you were strong though you lived under this cloud for many years. You will endure but you will never forget and you will be stonger for it - that is simply who you are. Take care my friend. thinking of you the fords Steve, I know that, very sadly, this has not been entirely unexpected but I also know that the two of you certainly made the most of every minute of every day of the last five years or so and that Sarah lived more in one lifetime than the majority of people ever summon up the courage to. I'm sure there's nothing that can console you right now but as a wise person told me recently, unless we really hurt at these times - we were never really alive! Needless to say our heartfelt empathy goes out to you across the oceans. Stay strong. Love Ian and Lisa. Dear Steve If at any time you are in the northern hemisphere, you would be
very welcome to stay with us – I have an Dear Steve, We are all so, so sorry to hear this news. Sarah was
a lovely, warm, strong person who we I am glad Sarah's family was there with her at the end. You must
be just devastated Steve To Stephen & Family, I am a friend of your mum Janice in England and she has kept me informed about Sarah's illness. I am so sorry for your sad loss. You both seemed to be very happy from the photos and nothing I can say will take away your pain and sense of loss at this very sad time. Sarah will always be with you all and will live on in your hearts and memories. She is now at peace and free from pain and one day you will both meet again. God bless. Sandra Garner & Family Leeds, England Dear Steve, We are so sorry to hear that Sarah has passed away. I guess it is a testament to her character and her fight that she
became not only Hello Steve, Carl told me about Sarah's passing and I wanted to mail you to say how incredibly sorry I am. I struggle even to write that as it sounds so terribly inadequate against the most terrible pain you must be feeling. I never met Sarah but I felt as if I did, as I was strongly touched by your emails about her illness - but also, much more than that, was inspired about your life together - the adventures you had together, so visibly demonstrated by the photos you included which showed you literally living the dream in the way you wanted to. Through this I saw and felt Sarah as strong and vivacious and joyous
and vital and more than anything, Dear Steve, I am so very sorry to hear that Sarah has finally lost her long battle with cancer – so bravely and cheerfully fought. I can only imagine how difficult these years must have been for you and how hard it must be now without her. I have such happy memories of working with Sarah. She was always like a breath of fresh air – bubbly, lively, enthusiastic and willing to get down to work at a moments notice (I persuaded her several times!). I had always hoped that one day she might become a consultant at The Whittington. She fitted in so well with us all and would have been a fantastic colleague. However you both decided to make your lives in Australia and I know you have had a good life there and that both of you have been very successful in your careers. I am very sorry that I could not make it to see you both during my trip to Oz last Autumn. I hadn’t realised how far away Perth is from the other places I was visiting (Melbourne, Tasmania, Sydney)! However I did have a long chat with Sarah on the phone when I was in Melbourne (and we have kept in intermittent email contact over the years). During that conversation we both acknowledged that her cancer could not be cured but she hoped for a longer remission than this. I think she did amazingly well to continue working as the consultant in charge of neonatal transport in Perth as long as she did – a huge achievement. You and her family must be very proud of her. Thank you for letting me know the sad news. I will pass your email on to her many friends and colleagues in North London. Thinking of you. Heather Mackinnon Dear Steve, Since I received the call from mum this morning, I
have thought of nothing else. We would run into John’s room in the morning to find him
fast asleep as he had got up in the middle of the One year my dad dressed as Santa and knocked on the door –
we were so excited that Santa had come Hello Steve. Words are difficult; Sarah and you have found this a very difficult time however I have to say you both have been an inspiration to me in your courageous battle against the odds. Sarah’s continuous focus on what can be achieved and her great sense of humour even in an obvious time of suffering has been humbling to all. I thank her for her openness, laughter and courage I am feeling and thinking of you Steve and thank you for bringing Sarah into our lives. Even though I did not know her well or for long she made a special mark on my life. My thoughts are with you Steve, and the family. Sincere condolences mate Neil Dear Steve, I'm Speechless. She sure was a wonderful lady. We enjoyed her company very much at the movies and the restaurant. She was kind and thoughtful and we admired her courage to fight on. All the best Steve. We'll support you and her memory in anyway we can. With our deepest sympathy, Robin, Sachiko and Vivien Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glint on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you wake in the morning hush, I am the swift, uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circling flight. I am the soft starlight at night. Do not stand at my grave and weep. I am not there, I do not sleep. (Do not stand at my grave and cry. I am not there, I did not die!) Steve, my condolences over your tragic loss. Sarah was simply a gentle breeze who barely brushed the check of my life but the hurricane energy that she gave your being is clear. Russell kept me in touch with her gutsy fight and you must be immensely proud of her strengh and achievements. Time will stand still and
existence will feel terribly hollow but the wonderful memories that
you have will Hi Steve, Condolences to you and Sarah’s family and our thoughts are with you in wha must a very difficult time. Based on our chat at golf a few weeks ago I recognise that Sarah’s quality of life had deteriorated but I know that this does not make the inevitable outcome any easier. I will try to call you over the next couple of days. If you need to get some space away from home give me a call; you’re welcome to pop up to our place or we can get out for a drink or another shocking game of golf. Branden and family. Dear Steve, It is hard to put into words how sad we were to receive your e-mail yesterday. I have put some more thoughts in a card which is on it's way to you and I shall be adding some of my memories of Sarah to her website. Our thoughts are with you at this extremely difficult time - I hope you can find some of the same strength that Sarah has had over the past 6 years - she really was truly amazing. Please pass on our condolences to Sarah's family as well. Take care. With love from Emma Damian and Tom Steve, I have felt positively numb since reading your email so I cannot begin to imagine how you feel. Sarah was an amazing person and I feel very privileged to have known her and enjoyed her company, albeit on too few occasions. I am sorry that I never managed to take her sailing as I know that is something she wanted to do but there is no doubt she packed an incredible amount into her cruelly shortened life. Just from my sporadic acquaintance with her I found Sarah to be caring and compassionate, intelligent and succinct, positive and patient but above all she was clearly resilient in fighting a disease which has taken so many lives. Keep it together Steve - Sarah would not have wanted you moping and mourning too much and whenever you fancy a weekend break in East Anglia let us know. Sincerely Pat and family Dear Steve, I am so sorry for your loss. At work, we walk around in shock unable to accept that Sarah will not be here next week, unable to accept the relentless attack on Sarah from the cancer; Sarah, who was so good and so strong. We were so blessed to have Sarah as part of our team. She was a gifted paediatrician who gave so much of herself to her work. She saved the lives of many small vulnerable patients and Perth is a much better place for Sarah having been here. I cannot imagine how hard it must be for you. I admire her strength. I admire your strength. Take care of your self. I wish you courage for the future. My deepest sympathy to you and Sarah's Mum and family. Karen Simmer Sandra and I have been fortunate of having you and Sarah as friends for more than four years. These news are absolutely tragic, but we hope you can find peace thinking of all the beautiful moments and the great life the two of you had through all these years. Sarah's courage and fighting spirit are going to stay with us forever. We were also fortunate of sharing beautiful times with her and we only have nice memories about her. To you and your family we send all our love and wishes for consolation in this difficult time. May God give you strength and wisdom in this moment dear friend Cesar and Sandra Dear Steve, So very sorry to hear your news. I hope that it is a comfort to you with the knowledge that Sarah died with dignity amongst those who loved her, and the site is a wonderful and growing tribute to her. We have not met up for too long – a slight problem over geography, but I will always remember the time you ‘came together’ as I was also there (with Russell and Emma) 17 years ago. That trip to Kenya when you both developed an unhealthy interest in bird watching at exactly the same time had us all wondering what was going on initially, but in retrospect I suspect something had been brewing for a while…. Sarah achieved so much in such a short time and lived life to the full before, and later on in spite of, her illness- she was an inspiration to us all. Mark and Tina Stephen, It's mum. What can I say. Sarah was a lovely daughter-in-law, she always seemed to bounce back so I never thought we'd lose her. I've shared some lovely times with you both. Your wonderful wedding at Duncombe Park with Mossy the caricaturist (I think we all queued to have our portraits done) and recently the 40th party at Hazelwood Castle, an occasion enjoyed by everyone - we even got (yet again) to have a guitar interlude. Holidays together - Sydney, Prague, Budapest and now Perth. Sarah's mum Liz has been there to support you both, now its my turn to support you. You've loads of happy memories, lots of super friends and time is a great healer. I'm on my way and will be with you soon. Take care son, Love mumxx Dear Steve, I can hardly write as I'm so upset. Eventhough I spoke to you yesterday I felt I should write here too and I was overwhelmed at how many people have already responded and left messages for you. It only confirms how popular you and Sarah were as a couple and how much people care about you. I will miss Sarah so much but she is no longer suffering and in pain. She was a great sister-in-law - always so full of energy, upbeat and positive with a bubbly sense of humour yet so calm and down to earth too. Even in the most difficult days of her illness her humour and courage prevailed. When her hair grew back a different colour she told me she'd always wanted to be blonde! She was a good listener too. I remember when she rang me to talk abou IVF and offer advice. She was having chemotherapy at the time yet was so selfless. I will never forget that call. You were like two peas in a pod, both sharing the same adventurous spirit. I'm so glad you found each other and managed to create your dream home and life together. I'm sure in time you'll look back and cherish all your wonderful memories and photos ( there are so many!) although it is so painful at the moment. I will never forget Sarah and I will make sure that Ellen knows all about her "Auntie Sarah". I'm so pleased you were able to visit when she was born and see each other through "skype". I wish I could be in Australia. Mum and Dad will be with you soon but you know I will help you in any way I can and I'm thinking about you every minute of every day. Lots and lots of love, Sarah, Ryan and Ellen xxx I am proud to have been Sarah's father-in-law. I used to joke with her that she was my favourite daughter-in-law when in fact she is the only one I have, but even if she wasn't I'm sure she would come out on top. I will miss the "banter" and ridiculous sense of humour we shared. Stephen and Sarah had such a strong bond which made a sound and loving marriage. Steve, I'll be with you in a few days to offer all my support, and remember, strong men do cry. Dad. Dear Steve, my heart sunk when I saw the title of your email. I am so desperately sorry to hear that Sarah lost her battle after fighting so hard for the past six years. Life must seem very cruel to you at this moment, but I’m sure you take comfort from the fabulous memories you have because you both made sure that Sarah’s life was not wasted one bit. I’m glad we had the opportunity to see you both at Beccy’s party last year, and that we saw Sarah looking well and very happy. If/when you’re back in England you are always very welcome to come and stay, or just use us as a B&B if you want to escape into the Lake District. Take care, and don’t let those Duracell batteries drain away. Giles’ and my thoughts are with you at this very sad time. Much love Becky CHER STEVE, .C EST AVEC GANDE PEINE QUE JE LIS VOTRE MAIL AU FIN FOND DE LA ROUMANIE... JE PARTAGE VOTRE CHAGRIN ET VOUDRAIS VOUS PRESENTER TOUTES MES SINCERES CONDOLEANCES. IL N Y A PAS DE MOTS POUR EXPRIMER CET IMMENSE PERTE D UNE SI BONNE ET GENEREUSE PERSONE QUI VOUS RENDEZ HEUREUX ET AVEC QUI VOUS AVEZ TANT PARTAGER... QU ALLEZ VOUS FAIRE MAINTENANT ??????????? JE ME DOUTE QUE CA VA ETRE DUR POUR VOUS AU DEBUT. BON COURAGE CHER STEVE ... MES PENSEES ET COEUR SONT AVEC VOUS . CHRISTEL. Hi Steve, thanks for letting us know, we are so sad to hear of Sarah’s passing and send our condolences to you and the family. It seems so sad that Sarah spent so many hours giving life to wee little things only to have her own cut short so cruelly. It must be an incredibly difficult time for you and Sarah’s family. I was actually dropping a friend of mum’s home on Wednesday evening and drove past your house and it seemed so dark and quiet. I hope that it will gradually get a little lighter over coming months and we are thinking of you as you grieve at this time. We fly to New Zealand on Monday until early June so may not be around for the funeral but please do keep us posted on the details. Regards Danicia and Martin Dear Steve and Liz, we were so very sad to hear the news on Thursday, which came as a big shock even though we knew Sarah was very unwell. She was a truly beautiful person, always laughing and smiling and planning her next sporting challenge or her next trip overseas.We have lovely memories of Sarah from the last few years here in Perth.....going to see Kylie and Robbie......fish and chips at Cottesloe beach.......dinners out at Vans..............and many more. The last few months must have been so difficult for you,but you all managed her illness with such incredible strength and diginity - a real inspiration. We will miss her greatly. Whenever you are up to a having a beer, a round of golf or a trip to the cricket.... we are here and our door is always open. Thinking of you, lots of love Alice and Donald Dear Steve & Sarah's family. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy at this most difficult of times. I have had the pleasure of knowing Sarah since we started our medical training together all those years ago. She was a good friend, determined, courageous and full of life. I am so glad that our paths in life crossed. I feel honoured to have had Sarah as a friend, and I will miss her dearly. We are all in the midst of grief, but with time we will be able to reflect on our times with Sarah and enjoy many fond memories. She remains an inspiration to us all. With love always, Liz, Khurshid, Patrick & Daniel Dear Steve, Liz & Family, We are deeply saddened to hear of Sarah's death. Our memories are of a leggy girl with flying hair, always smiling and laughing and ready for a chat. The children enjoyed life playing pom-pom, batting shuttle cocks over the garden fence into each others garden, trying their best to knock the heads off the flowers, to our vociferous displeasure. In the summer holidays they rode their bikes and went for picnics on the common. The children in Michaelmas Close generally enjoyed being together and there were such a lot of them. It is difficult to take in, that the little girl who lived next door, who we watched growing up over the years emerging from a chrysalis into a beautiful, confident, fully fledged consultant, is no longer with us. We are so very sorry for your loss. Your grief and pain must be unendurable. Sarah was so young and full of promise, life will never be the same again. At the moment life is full of sorrow but in time you will be able to draw strength from the fantastic life Sarah was able to share with you even though it was such a short one. Life is not fair. Why should such a lovely girl with such a zest for life be snapped up in her prime? We hope that Sarah is now at peace away from the pain & suffering she has endured with such fortitude. Our love and thoughts are with you all at this tragic time and we hope you can draw comfort from each other. We are so very sorry. Betty, Bob, Hugo and Lizzy. Steve, I am so so sorry. My heart goes out to you and Sarah's family. Sarah was so young and talented - such a loss to her patients and those dear. She clearly battled hard, and managed to achieve so much - such a cruel disease. I am glad that you have family around you so you can give each other support. We too are battling cancer in the family. David's Dad is very ill again - the stomach cancer is back. They will operate on him in 2 weeks time and take the rest of his stomach out. A stressful time for all the family - we're all finding it tough. Think of all the wonderful times you had together Steve, even if you feel like weeping now. Hope that you find strength to get through the memorial service.I'll be thinking of you. Love Cath I was so sad to hear the news. As you know, Steve, I unfortunately knew Sarah for only a relatively short time, but she made such a deep impression as a warm and courageous person in the face of everything she was coping with. I am relieved that Sarah is not suffering any longer. As many others have pointed out here, she will be very sadly missed. Please pass on my condolences to the family and let me know whatever I can do to assist. It was a privilege to be able to spend some time with you both. Stay in regular contact. Jonathan Dear Steve and and Liz, although we were expecting to receive the news of Sarah for some time, it was a terrible shock. It was so lovely to speak to her last week and she sounded so positive and brave. We really appreciate the fact that you came to tell us the sad news of her prognosis last year. Thank you for looking after our home so well and we chose you because of the good vibrations we felt from you both. Our thoughts are with you both and her family at this very sad time. You have made a wonderful home and it is good that Sarah saw it completed. Please do not hesitate to ask us, if there is anything we can do, both now and in the future. Love to you both Malcolm and Marjorie Dear Liz, Steve, John, Cath and Livy What can we say - words are inadequate at a time like this and we cannot begin to know what you must be going through but our thoughts are with you all at this very sad time. Sarah was a lovely person and accomplished so much in her life and reading the wonderful tributes we can see that Steve is also a very special person. You are a wonderful family and we know that you will pull together and get through this terrible time. If we can be of help please do not hesitate to contact us. Kind regards Maureen and Ken xxxx Good Morning, I have known Sarah for nearly 4 years through working at Priness Margaret Hospital and even though I didn’t know her all that much, what I do know is that I have never met someone so kind hearted and caring, she always had a beautiful smile on her face and no-one will ever take that away. I admired her as she was so very strong and always stayed positive, I send my deepest sympathy to all her family and friends and hope that her memory will forever be held within their hearts, Regards Jaye Brown Cher Steve, Je viens de découvrir ton email de la semaine dernière (inexplicablement il est arrivé à mon ancienne adresse) et je viens de consulter le site pour Sarah. Et je te tiens à te faire part de mes sincères condoléances, de ma compassion et de ma tristesse. Je pense qu'il n'y a pas grand-chose susceptible de te consoler et le seul soulagement que je ressens est de savoir que Sarah a cessé de souffrir. Et je suis très sensible à la dignité dont tu as fait preuve pendant tout ce malheur. Je suis de tout coeur avec toi et sache que si tu as besoin de quoi que ce soit, je serai libre alors n'hésite surtout pas à me contacter. Sincèrement, toute mon amitié Stéphane Dear Steve, so sorry to hear the news. Sincere condolences. Life is a strange and beautiful thing. Our lives feel so huge, real, even indestructible; yet everything is impermanent. Transformation is fundamental to our Universe, and Sarah's passing from this life is yet another manifestation of this impermanence. But from the moment she was conceived, the ripples of her existence began to spread. We are all impermanent, yet our existence leaves an indelible mark on the Universe. Nothing comes from nowhere. Nothing ceases to be. I wish you peace, and strength in time. Paul Dear Steve, I was so sorry to hear from Alice and Donald that Sarah passed away last week. I have such wonderful memories of the time we spent together at Cottesloe Beach this summer when although Sarah was clearly unwell she was still full of life, even getting into the sea. I have a very nice photo of that day. As you say in your email which D&A sent on to me, Sarah was indeed inspirational in her fight with with cancer. After she left Queen's, I met her at the Royal Free when she was just diagnosed. I remarked that she had lost a lot of weight and she told me why. Then she wrote me a very kind letter for my retirement before she relapsed, not even mentioning how she was but replied that all was well. So it was with great sadness I heard from her later that she had deteriorated. I know you will be devastated. It sounds as though you have very strong family ties and people around. I will certainly donate to her trust. Sarah was one of my best trainees - I thought very highly of her not just as a doctor but as a very fine kind woman. In this very sad time I wish you all strength. You will be in my prayers. With greatest sympathy Sheila McKenzie Dear Steve, I was so saddened to hear of your loss of Sarah. Although I had never met her, I could sense the deep and protective love you had for her and also the courage it took for both of you to face what you knew would one day come. There were times I felt that songs you played on the piano were really for her such as Singing in the Rain. It's so great to see her on pictures on this sight and get a sense of what a beautiful person she is. My deepest sympathy to you and all your family. I'm sure her life will be celebrated and continued in so many ways through all of you. Meredith Bennett Dear Steve, Lizzie and family - All the Albermans were deeply sorry to hear the sad news and will be sending messages separately. We did not know Sarah well, although of course Eva knew her as a student, but we followed news of her career closely and admiringly, and with growing dismay heard of the terrible progress of her illness. Her fighting back was magnificent, and her courage in continuing to work, and apparently make the most of life, remarkable. We have been thinking of all of you with great sympathy and love. Ken and Eva Liz, Steve and family members The last thing that Jack and I wanted to hear was that Sarah had lost her long battle against cancer. Although you and Steve had been preparing for the worst for some time it is still a devastating blow when it happens. While we know that words are only a small gesture of support we want you to know that her spirit and courage touched many people’s lives as it has ours. We remember Sarah and John playing in the Close with Bryan and Jacqueline when they were small children and we have watched Sarah grow and make a success of her life. When we told Bryan and Jacqueline yesterday they were both extremely shocked by your sad news. We cannot begin to understand how you are all feeling but our thoughts are with you all at this heart rendering time. Our deepest sympathy and love to you and yours. Eleanor & Jack It is so hard to accept that we will not see Sarah’s smiling face come into our office ever again. Sarah was such a warm, caring, positive person with a fun sense of humour and working with her was always the greatest pleasure. Although we only knew her for a short time through PMH our lives have been touched forever by her. All my sympathy to her husband and family. Cherina LoPresti Secretary Neonates PMH Dear Steve & Liz, we are all so sad to hear that Sarah has lost her valiant fight against this devastating disease. Her remarkable determination, courage and strength was tremendous. All this, as well as her kindness, sense of fun and the many good times we all shared together will always be remembered. She was a lovely girl and it was our privilege to have known and loved her. You were both blessed with a strong love for each other and have more memories than most hope to achieve in two lifetimes. Your strength, Steve, and Liz’s presence will have been a great comfort to Sarah. Stay strong now and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. We are here, as always, should you need us. Much love to you and Sarah’s family. Pete, Jan & family Dear Steve, I was greatly saddened to receive the tragic news . As you know more than anyone else, Sarah was a most wonderful friend and colleague. Over the years, we bumped into each other less and less, as our careers took different paths, but despite her illness, move to Perth, and extremely full life, Sarah always found the time for old friends and to stay in touch. It was typical of her (and yours !) warmth and hospitality that when we met in Perth last November, I felt that I had known you both for years despite distances in time and place. I was extremely heartened to see her so positive and so full of life, which for me, makes the news more devastating. As you say, I think there are few words that can express your and your family's loss. For me it was a privilege to have known her. Thinking of you and your family kind regards Atul (colleague from the Whittington Hospital) Dear Steve, I am so very very sorry. Sarah was a wonderful colleague and a lovely friend. She bore her illness with such grace and good humour. I will never forget her laughter and pleasure at her fluffy hair regrowth post chemotherapy! That she faced it all with such courage and spirit is a testament to who she was. She will be greatly missed by all of us who were lucky enough to work with her. I am sure many parents will remember her too, for the care she gave to them and their babies. Thinking of you and her family at this terrible time, Jo Colvin It is with overwhelming sadness that we are sending you all, our love and condolences at this very difficult time. Steve, we have followed your wonderful adventures and achievements together through Sarah's very proud Mum, Liz, our neighbour. Sarah was an outstanding young lady in every aspect of her life. Her energy, enthusiasm and passion for life were inspirational. This website reflects and celebrates an amazing life...because that is what Sarah did...she LIVED with a capital L. Those of us whose lives she touched are blessed. Thinking of you, love from Pam and David, Oliver and Daniel. Steve, growing up listening to your adventures together around the world, your life in Oz and seeing how much fun you had together has made such a massive impression on me. Ever since I can remember I've been listening to stories and looking at pictures of Africa, South America and the Far East, Just a tiny example of my favourite places. Places that I could only dream about. I've been so fortunate now to have experienced the world for myself and the passion you shared for travelling will certainly live on in me! Sarah was such an amazing person that is the only way I describe her! I remember her teaching me judo VERY badly in the living room, she always had a smile even when you were learning guitar! Sarah has been the biggest inspiration for me and if I enjoy my life half as much as she did then there's nothing more I could want! I know she'll be burning some rubber in the little red Fiat Uno stuck on 0mph under Blackwall Tunnel for the rest of my life! lots of love Ruth XXX Dear Steve, a short note to let you know we are, and have been, thinking of you and Sarah each and every day at this very sad time. Ruth and I have some great memories of Sarah; dancing at your 40th party; eating Chinese at Mum and Dad’s (do you remember that was the first time we saw you wearing glasses and laughing!); wine tasting in Oz! There are far too many to mention. We all obviously loved her very much and we are very lucky to have known such a fun loving, kind and incredibly bright person. I will remember her happily and miss her very much. If there is anything at all Gary and I can do for you, please contact us without hesitation. We are hoping that you can meet our beautiful new arrival Jake soon. All my love, Lucy xxx Dear Steve, we were really saddened to hear about the death of Sarah. Please accept our deepest sympathy to you, Sarah's family and your own family. You both showed great courage as you faced this illness together. Sarah was such a lovely gentle person whom it was a privilege to know. She related so well with the families of her patients. Together you lived life to the full enjoying so much. It will be a difficult time for you and the family but the memories and support of family and friends will comfort you and knowing that the pain has now stopped for Sarah. If there is anything we can do to help please just ask us. Love Rosie & Ronnie Liz,Steve and Family, Steve, I'm affraid i have never met you, or spoken to Yourself or Sarah in any depth. I am Liz's neighbour back in england and having just returned from a course, learnt that Sarah has passed away. Over the last few months I have drawn such profound inspiration hearing of Sarah's struggle and fight with cancer. It is with sincere honesty that I say i have never been more inspired and influenced by someone i have never met. In what i do , I am and will continue to encounter many cold Dark places and seemingly insurmountable challenges, It is through Liz's stories of Sarah's resiliance,strength and determination that have provided me with all the reasons Ive needed or I think ever will need to get through them. Im affraid i always assumed I would get the oppourtunity to thank Sarah for that Inspiration, I am deeply sadened that I will not. I will take her example with me in all that i do, and I know of many young people i will soon command that need a rolemodel like Sarah. I am learning that the army teaches its recruits and new generation through the stories of their predecessors, I hope you would allow me from time to time to use Sarahs life to inspire the men and women that serve with me. I am so very sorry for your loss. Yours Sincerely Ollie Mikulskis Dear Steve, Debi and I were deeply saddened to read of Sarah’s passing. Both Debi and I will always remember with fondness our meetings with Sarah, especially the last time we were together in Perth when we sat on the grass, overlooking the beach at Hilary’s, chatting in the sun while we all watched the boys play. Sarah looked so well and happy and the conversation was so rich and warm. We are just so sorry that in the last 18 months since then we have not been back to Perth and did not have a chance to see you both again. Together you were like a single soul and it was always amazing to see and know how happy you were with each other. You were and will always be a rare case of the perfect couple, of true soul mates and with Sarah’s passing we will celebrate the joy you clearly brought to each other. If there is anything we can do to support you at this time please don’t hesitate to let us know. Deepest condolences and best wishes Barry and Debi I had known Sarah since 1985 when we both started at the London Hospital Medical School but more importantly were in the same hall of residence. There were six girls in the hall from the London and we were there for 2 years. We then moved out into 2 councils flats in the east end - Sarah was with Helen and Joanne and I was with Liz and Johanna but we all still kept in close contact. I remember several weekends away with the walking club that Sarah and I both belonged to - it was always great to get out of London albeit in a rickety old minibus arriving at a campsite in the pouring rain at midnight! If we weren't camping then we stayed in some pretty dire bunkhouses but I was always impressed with how Sarah just mucked in and got on with it. One of my other memories of Sarah was on our holiday in Kenya when I think that the rest of us (me, Russell and Mark) became aware of something blossoming between her and "the northerner". There were lots of comments being thrown around about Steve being into "bird watching" but it finally dawned on us when we caught the two of them listening to the same walkman sharing the earpieces between themselves. I shall always remember Sarah and Steves wedding - what a great day we all had and what an amazing setting. Sarah looked stunning and what a great speech she made, almost upstaging Steve and Russell. She inspired me to make a speech at my own wedding although it was not a patch on hers. One of my other memories was catching up with Sarah and Steve one bank holiday weekend when we were both camping in the Lake District. Sarah had just found the lump in her breast and was awaiting the biopsy results. We had a great walk in Borrowdale (Sarah, Steve, my husband Damian and young son Tom), got absolutely soaking wet and ended up drying out in a teashop. That was when I first realised how resilient and brave she was going to be - she and Steve both just "got on with the weekend" although deep down they both must have been extremely worried. I am so grateful that Sarah and Steve have been so good at keeping in touch - something that I' for one, wish I had been better at. It was great to see them in September last year when they came to stay with us for the weekend. It was obvious at that time that Sarah was becoming more unwell. I was so impressed with how openly she was able to talk about her illness and how brave and optimistic she remained. She really was an inspiration to us all and I feel honoured to have known her. Emma Lawrence Dear Steve, I'm so sad to receive your E-mail, my heart goes out to you and your families. Although we had lost touch, I often wondered how Sarah was, but had no idea she had taken so ill. It seems so terribly unfair, and it's at times like this that you wonder why life can be so cruel. I remember commenting to Mat what an inspiration she was when we were living in Perth, she was so very brave. Last week was 3 years since Mat died, and believe it or not the time has flown (I thought it would stand still!) I'm pleased to say that life has taken a positive turn recently, and I have a lovely man in my life, and we're planning a future together. Mat will always have a place in my heart, and I'm still close to his family, but thankfully my partner is very accepting of that. My thoughts are with you over these hard times - I'm sure you'll agree, it's amazing what inner strength families seem to find to cope with tragedy. Best wishes Julie This is to let you know how sorry I am about Sarah. Sarah inspired us all with her courage and optimism in spite of all the problems she had to face. It seems as if every time she overcame one hurdle another one presented itself. It all seemed so unfair. In spite of all this Sarah was a very conscientious doctor who made a big contribution to our Unit and especially to Neonatal transport. I hope you can now also look to the future as I'm sure Sarah would have wanted. Love Annette Dear Steve, I am very sad to hear your news. This is such a loss and I cannot imagine how you must be feeling. Cancer is such an awful disease and I am sure you feel anger, frustration, sad and even at times joy that you met Sarah and was able to spend the years that you did have together, with her. My mum was diagnosed last year with cancer and I feel at times cheated that she has this illness. I know that the next few days, months and indeed years will be filled with a mix of emotions, but Sarah will hopefully help you through it. You will always have such beautiful memories and it is those memories that will get you through each day – Sarah will want you to live your life to the full and that is what you must do. You lived it to the full with her, and you owe it to her to remain doing so. My thoughts are very much with you and this very difficult time for you Steve. Maeve I had the privelege of working with Sarah over the past few years, & more recently as Co-Director of WANTS. I was always amazed by Sarah's positive attitude to life, and her immense courage and dignity with which she fought this disease. Sarah will always be an inspiration to me, & she will be sorely missed, & her memories treasured. Please accept my sincere condolences. Ith kindest regards, Steve Resnick Dear Steve, I think we only met on a few occasions when Sarah was still working for me at the London and you were in your flat on Old Ford Road but I was very saddened to hear from Donald and Alice that Sarah had died. I had known she had been unwell and had hoped that she might have made a fuller recovery. She was a strong and courageous person and I have to say that I feel privileged to have known her – even in the very superficial way that I did. She was an excellent doctor and a very down to earth person in whom one could have absolute trust. You will be in my prayers and those of my family With all good wishes for your future whatever it may hold Paul Mannix Dear Steve, Liz, John and Sara, Cath and Livy, all our memories of Sarah, inseparable from Steve, are fun-filled. You brought your photos to show us after many exciting overseas ventures - Iceland stands out strongly -,or on a flying visit from Oz, you would just pop in. Before then, over some three years, you joined us in tasting, drinking and learning about fine wines from the great wine regions of France and Spain, in company with our god- daughter Vicki, also a doctor, and her lawyer husband, Andrew. To have these four bright, talented young people at our dinner table was both a privilege and a joy. As an offshoot, you and I, Steve, spent several pleasant hours honing your excellent French and Spanish language skills. More recently, what a Surprise Party you threw for our Golden Wedding: Liz and Des, Sarah and Steve, John and Sara, Cath and Livy. To celebrate the occasion with our extended family was very special. Sadly, Des was already very ill. And now we grieve with you for our dear Sarah. With our love Iris and Denys Dear Steve, 11p.m. here so 6a.m. in Perth. You're probably awake anyway. I keep thinking how Sarah always started sentences with a laugh. I'll always remember her that way, as well as being caring, interested, kind, resolute. Sarah was remarkable and your years together very special. I hope today to be a celebration of Sarah and her life. Thinking of you, especially tonight/tomorrow. Lots of love, Sam and Neil Dear Steve, I had received the tragic news about Sarah via Colette. Michelle and I were truly shocked and we can only begin to imagine what a loss this is for you and for Sarah's family. We have looked at Sarah's website which is both joyful and moving and a lovely tribute to someone who obviously led a very full and happy life - in fact Michelle and I often used to cite you two to friends as a great example of people who remained steadfastly determined to get the most of out life despite Sarah's illness. I am sure today's service will reflect and celebrate that spirit. We wish you all the strength you need to come to terms with this loss- our thoughts are with you and with Sarah's family Dik & Michelle Hi Steve, so sorry to hear of Sarah’s death last week. We are both very upset – for you Steve and for Sarah who was so brave in the past few years. It’s awful that she died so young. The only consolation is that she led a fun-filled and action-packed life and you have so many wonderful memories of your time together. Hopefully in time you can start to look forward to the future again. Thinking of you at this sad time and with our deep sympathies. Lots of love Liz and Dave On behalf of the Board and Fellows of the Royal Australasian College of Physicians, I write to offer you and your family our deepest sympathy on the death of your wife, Dr Sarah Mitchell. We regret the passing of such a vibrant young woman from our profession. Yours Sincerely, Professor Napier Thomson President The Royal Australasian College of Physicians We were lucky enough to meet Sarah with Steve at Denys and Iris' famous wine tastings. They were wonderful evenings, full of conversation and laughter and we look back on them with such pleasure. It is very hard to imagine that someone so kind and full of fun has been lost at such a young age. Our love and thoughts are with everyone who is missing her so much. Vicki and Andrew Dear Steve, it was with great sadness that I received the news that Sarah's battle against cancer had ended. I wish you and those close to you both my heartfelt wishes & sincere condolences. I never once forgot about you both in Australia, though I wasn't often in contact. I first met Sarah properly in year 3 of Yateley comprehensive school. I can remember one time when we had a balloon debate amongst our form (year 4 or 5 Mr Mathews class) Sarah turned up in character as David Bellamy, voice & beard! She fought a good cause and I believe she was one of the last few if not the winner. And what a good David Bellamy impersonation it was! I always thought of her as a friend, someone I could rely on for help or answers. After A' it was a pleasant surprise to bump into Sarah at The London Hospital, I was in the Dental department training as a nurse & hygienist whilst Sarah worked really hard over in the medical college. We met a few times and Sarah even sponsored me for a Cancer Research abseil one year that I was was doing in memory of a family member. I was glad that you had a fantastic life in Australia and so sorry it had to end far to early. Our deepest sympathies. Janet Slimm nee: Claydon & family Dear Steve, Aunt Liz, John and Cath, All of us are deeply shocked and saddened by this tragic news. Sarah was so brave throughout her battle with this terrible disease, never giving up hope and still living her life to the full, even up to her last days. The website is a wonderful way of celebrating Sarah's life and sharing your beautiful memories of her. The pictures are truly an inspiration to everyone and really capture how, despite her life being so sadly cut short in this way, she had achieved so much and had so much to be proud of. Sarah had excelled in her profession, she had been a great sportswoman, she had travelled the world and she was loved by wide circle of friends and family. Sarah was successful in everything she did. She touched so many people and saved so many lives. Her life made a real difference to the world and the world is a worse place without her, although I am sure she is now at peace in a better place. We were all thinking of you all on the day of the funeral. It was hard not to be able to be there with you to show our support, but our thoughts are with you all. Lots of love Naomi, and Hakan, Linda and Bijen Steve, my only daughter was one of the premature babies that Sarah cared for during the first half of 2007. I only new Sarah for a few months, and during that time, she was often absent from work. In retrospect it seems so obvious that she was seriously unwell; at the time, however, she was so positive and full of energy that we never thought to ask. During the period that Sarah was engaged in her own fight for life, there was at least one instance where she directly saved my daughter Annie's life. Late on a Sunday evening, my daughter Annie had shifted her breathing tube, and her blood oxygen rapidly dropped. The registrar on duty was unable to get the tube back into Annie's tiny airway. She hand ventilated Annie for almost an hour before Sarah arrived and immediately reinserted the tube. It was only Sarah's skill at inserting the breathing tube into the tiny airway that allowed Annie to resume breathing. Annie is now a healthy 16 month old infant. Other than a severe visual impairment, she escaped her time at PMH almost unscathed. I know that no words of mine could erase your grief, but you should take comfort from the fact that Sarah was still granting the gift of a full life even when she herself was undergoing treatment. With everlasting gratitude for Sarah's lifetime of contribution, regards, Paul Paul McFadden - Flight Lieutenant Dear Steve, Sarah was a great person, totally committed to her
work, and making a difference, Dear Steve, thank you for taking the time to let us know about Sarah. Sarah and I often chatted while we were at the Gawler Centre together. I spent 11 years in Perth during the 80's and had even done some of my training at Princess Margaret hospital. As a fellow breast cancer sufferer we had something in common but any temptation on my part to feel sorry for myself soon disappeared when I met Sarah - at least I have reached the age of 56 and have been fortunate enough to bring up my family. Sarah amazed me with her strength and, even though it was apparent that she had a battle on her hands, she showed great humour also. I know she felt blessed that her life with you had been so rich. Her concerns were only for those she might leave behind and not for herself. Such a beautiful life tragically cut short - my heart is heavy. The website is a lovely tribute. My thoughts are with you and the rest of Sarah's family. Pat Deeney Dear Steve, we have been away, and I just read your email from May telling us about Sarah. Ricardo and I and the family wish to send you our condolences. We were all so sorry to hear that Sarah had finally succumbed after so many years of her valiant fight. I presume you have heard about us from Liz with whom I have kept in touch all these years, since we all met in Mexico on a holiday. We have never met you, and I had not seen Sarah for years, but Liz always kept us up to date on everyone's lives. I wonder if Liz is still in Australia. We will be going to UK at the end of July to stay with our son Rick, also a doctor, so I will try to phone her from there and send her a card. If she is still with you, please give her our love and all our thoughts are with you at this sad, sad time. Thank you for letting us know. We wish you all the best, Susan and Ricardo Pinto and family. Dear Steve, I was very saddened to hear of Sarah's passing, but did receive some comfort from the very endearing and affectionate message you sent Heather. Sarah really was a solid rock of a doctor, who was utterly reliable and dependable both in emergencies and in clinic, where she often bore the load alone. She combined this with a delightful personality and good sense of humour. I appreciate that you are supporting a charity in Australia in Sarah's name, but perhaps it might also be an idea to have some commemoration at the Whittington. I shall discuss with Heather what form this might take, and perhaps you might let me know if this is ok with you? Kind regards Mervyn Jaswon Dear Steve, I was so sorry to hear that Sarah had passed away. I only ever met her once – at the 10 day Gawler program last year. I shared a room with her and Kate. I must say we laughed and laughed – usually at the silliest things. We laughed so much late at night, that the older couple called us the giggling gerties. They loved the sound of our laughter. My sister died of cancer three days after Sarah and I think you will agree that as much as we are missing them, the suffering has ended. They are always with us. Take care and God bless. Errolyn Steve, I'm really sorry to hear your news: I can only send you my deepest commiserations and trust you will mobilise all your considerable strength to get through this period. I never really got to know Sarah, but I am well aware how much she meant to you, and how much you will miss her. Should you be travelling over in the next few months I would love to meet up and talk. I am out of the darkness of Canary Wharf and am back at the Revenue in Whitehall. You'll always be welcome to come over for a coffee or lunch. Your news has really saddened me but I know you're a strong bloke and will come through this. All I can do is sent you my deepest sympathy and best wishes for the future. All the best, Martin Cook Dear Steve I met Sarah in July last year when we ‘Went to Gawler’ – I too have a cancer diagnosis. I remember – Sarah’s passion for her work; her helping her patients. Sarah’s intelligence – her informed approach. Sarah’s quiet thoughtfulness yet her ability to communicate, to speak at the right time. Sarah had a dignity, an inner strength. And her vulnerability – the strength to shed tears. Take care and God Bless Margaret Shore |
